Thursday, June 23, 2005

I'll never understand women

Wifey and I have been married over two years and together for over 4. I thought that I understood the fairer sex about as well as any man can but obviously I don't. I don't understand how when I say hey do you mind if I do this and you say sure that's fine, after I'm done you get upset and tell me something like I see where I rank. Why do women tell you it's cool go ahead and do something then after is done get all upset because you did just that? Why play the games? If you would rather me not play golf, go out, sleep in, go to dinner here, why not tell me BEFORE I do it rather then being upset AFTER? Any of my female readers care to try to enlighten me?

10 Comments:

Anonymous Danielle said...

It's a girl thing. lol. I do the same thing and really don't know why...maybe when we say "sure go ahead" we say that so you men will say "oh it's okay, I really don't have to go.." and that makes us feel special, who knows. I dunno, I do it but not sure why!!! I have to think about it!!

10:05 AM  
Blogger FreakinRican said...

When you think about it, come back and try to enlighten me a little bit so I don't make the same mistakes twice :-)

10:29 AM  
Blogger Cherry said...

Get your wife on Paxil. That will help. I am waaaaay less moody/PMSy/bitchy since I started taking it. Women just have way too many hormones flying around in their body.

11:06 AM  
Blogger FreakinRican said...

Even while she's pregnant?

11:23 AM  
Anonymous Danielle said...

oh!!! she's pregnant!!!! then bare with it baby!!! lol

1:10 PM  
Blogger chardrian said...

Well I'll comment even though dong endowed because my name is gender neutral and I think I would make a great drag queen.

Wives/girlfriends/significant others think that their male partners should know what is going on in their heads. And if you don't know what is going on, then that means you don't really know them, understand them, love them like you should.

It all comes down to that really fine balance of determining if the "ok" is really an "ok" or if it is a "no I don't what you to go but I can't say no because you would let me go do X, Y, or, Z."

This was definitely the latter. It's like reading a bluff in poker - with time you will get better at it. ;)

2:18 PM  
Blogger Cherry said...

Nice Clock!!!! ;)

2:29 PM  
Anonymous Lola said...

I never do this with my signifcant other. I'm confident enough to say no and why I don't want him to do a certian thing. I think chicks that do this are too insurece to say no when asked for an opinion, and then after the deed is done, they take out their anger for not standing up for themself at the do-er. I work with a woman like this, she's on meds and it doesn't help. Dude you need to have a calm talk with her and let her know it's OK to say no, but not OK to go back on your word.

8:19 PM  
Blogger Moral Turpitude said...

She's pregnant. If I were her I'd be mad everytime you did anything that did not involve cooking me something or fluffing my pillow. In fact I'm mad right now.

4:16 PM  
Blogger Janelle Renee said...

I agree with MT. (Hey that rhymes!)

It must be a hormone thing.

2:30 PM  

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